A week and a half ago, I took Analise to her first swim lessons (well, not her FIRST lesson but her first lesson that did not involve me or Eric donning a swim suit and getting in with her). I was nervous about what Ana would think of the whole affair and was pleased when she planted herself next to her friend, Noah, and never looked back at me. They splashed, jumped, played, blew bubbles, put their heads under the water, and even swam back and forth between two teachers. I sat back feeling cocky and started moving my thoughts from "I wonder if Ana will want to do this" to "I wonder if Ana will learn how to swim in a couple of weeks."
The next day Analise took 10 minutes to even get in the pool. From the moment we donned her swim suit her only words were "I don't want to put my head in the water", "I don't want to swim between the teachers", and basically any other "I don't want to..." she could think of. We talked by the edge of the pool ad
nauseam about how much fun swimming was and how the only way we have
conquered fears before is by trying to do what we fear and then it won't be scary anymore (I know my friends with 3-year-
olds are shaking their heads at my mantra...if that kind of logic EVER worked with 3-year-olds,
we would have much different days).
The only thing that finally worked was practicing saying "No Thank You" when faced with an activity she didn't want to do. Part of me can't believe it worked but for some reason armed with the power of "No Thank You" she was willing to participate. That second day of swimming class Ana used her "No Thank You" in response to any request that had to do with anything that did not
involve sitting on the side of the pool kicking her legs. My dreams of her swimming in a matter of weeks were quickly deflated.
But I am proud to say that after a week a half, Ana does participate in every aspect of swimming class and today she even willingly put her head under water! I am so proud of her for even being willing to partake in swimming lessons outside of the comfort of her parents' arms that I just beam when I watch her.
Luckily for you, I even thought to bring my camera the other day....
Here is Ana and her friend, Noah, waiting for their class to start:

Here they are on the side of the pool practicing their kicks and paddles:

And here is Ana going around the pool with her teacher, Danielle, who has been
extremely kind and patient.

And who knows, maybe with lots of pool time this summer we will get this child closer to swimming on her own.